About
We Believe Relationships Can Be A Path To Deeper Love, Awareness and Transformation.
We're Lucy and Shanti. We've been together for over 12 years, exploring what it takes to build a deeply connected relationship—and how our relationships can become powerful catalysts for personal and spiritual growth.
Like many couples, we've experienced times when old patterns created distance between us. Times when we felt lost, life felt overwhelming, and despite loving each other deeply, we found ourselves caught in familiar cycles.
We know what it's like to want things to change, but struggle to understand why the same patterns keep returning.
Our Journey Beneath The Surface
Our earliest breakthroughs came when we began consciously practising what it meant to live from an open heart—to choose love, presence, connection and intimacy over fear and defensiveness.
For a time, it felt as though we’d discovered an entirely different way of being. But we struggled to sustain it. Before long, familiar triggers and protective patterns would return.
We began to realise lasting change required something deeper: becoming conscious of the patterns, fears and past experiences shaping how we related to ourselves and each other.
The more we understood ourselves, the more we could understand each other. And the more responsibility we took for our own growth, the more our relationship began to change.
Not perfect. But more conscious, connected, grounded and loving.
We came to see that relationships aren’t just about learning to communicate better. They can also be opportunities to understand ourselves more deeply, grow beyond old patterns, and experience love in a more conscious way.
The Heart Of Our Work
Our approach brings together psychology, relationship science, emotional healing, and spiritual exploration.
We're interested in what's happening beneath the surface: the attachment patterns, emotional responses, beliefs and protective strategies that can shape how we love, communicate and respond when we feel hurt.
Our work combines practical tools with deeper inner work, helping people develop greater self-awareness, navigate difficult emotions, and create more conscious, connected relationships.
We believe the goal isn't simply to stop arguing or become better at managing conflict. It's to understand ourselves more deeply, take responsibility for our own growth, and create the conditions for love, connection and intimacy to flourish.
Beyond Understanding Our Patterns
For us, understanding our patterns is an important beginning—but it's not the whole journey.
As we become more conscious of the fears, defenses and beliefs that shape how we relate, we can begin to experience ourselves and each other differently. We can move beyond blame and projection, and discover what becomes possible when we meet one another with greater openness, presence and love.
We're also interested in the deeper possibilities of relationship: how intimacy can become a path of inner transformation, how love can invite us beyond our habitual sense of separation, and how our connection with one another might open us to something greater than ourselves.
For us, this is where the journey moves beyond simply changing how we relate, towards exploring what it means to live and love from a deeper sense of wholeness and connection.
Our Experience
Our work is grounded in both professional training and lived experience.
Lucy is an accredited Life Coach and Master NLP Practitioner, with a BA (Hons), postgraduate qualifications, and Level 2 counselling training. Shanti has trained in life coaching, Neurolinguistic programming, and counselling at both Levels 2 and 3.
Alongside our professional training, our understanding has been shaped by years of personal exploration, healing, parenting, navigating life’s challenges, and learning what it takes to keep growing within a long-term relationship.
We don’t believe in pretending to have everything figured out. We’re two people who continue to learn, practise and deepen our understanding of what it means to live and love more consciously.
Today, we live in the countryside with our family, where life is a mix of work, time in nature, parenting, coffee, and finding presence amidst the beautiful chaos of everyday life.
Quantum Intentions grew from this journey—and from our belief that when we transform our relationship with ourselves, we open up new possibilities for the relationships we create with others.
We’re here to help you explore those possibilities.
Your journey starts here.
Understanding your unsconscious patterns is the first step.
Transforming them is where everything changes.
